The Golden Cage: Unveiling Women’s Rights in Qatar
Beyond privileges and propaganda, the stark realities of women’s lives in Qatar.
Alexandra Audrey Tompson
Dec 20, 2024 - 2:15 PM
The Illusion of Privilege
In Qatar, the narrative of women's lives often comes cloaked in royal treatment and superficial perks. Influencers like Aisha, formerly of iLoveQatar.net, highlight gestures of chivalry—like free coffee and skipping lines. To the untrained eye, these privileges may seem refreshing compared to dwindling chivalry seen in the West. Yet, these are but gilded bars of a golden cage, masking a far grimmer reality.
Women’s rights in Qatar remain restricted by male guardianship laws, a system influenced by the Wahhabi interpretation of Islam. Women under 25 require exit permits from male guardians to travel, and these permits can be revoked at any time. Even married women face court-ordered travel bans initiated by their husbands, often discovering them only at the airport.
Fleeing the Cage: Stories of Resistance
For some women, the gilded cage becomes unbearable, prompting daring escapes to seek freedom. Activist Noof Al-Maadeed’s story is a chilling example. After escaping to the UK and gaining asylum, she returned to Qatar, assured of protection. Shortly after, she vanished, reportedly detained or worse. Similarly, Aisha Al-Qahtani fled her influential family and now warns of the propaganda concealing Qatar’s systemic oppression of women.
“Behind the glitz and glamour, there is a dark side,” Aisha asserts. “It’s important for the world to see the real image of women in Qatar.”
The Legal Shackles of Patriarchy
Qatar’s Family Law codifies women’s subordination. A woman needs her male guardian’s permission to marry, and once married, she is legally bound to obey her husband. Working or traveling against his wishes can cost her financial support. Mothers, even in cases of custody, are denied the right to act as primary guardians of their children.
Inheritance laws favor sons over daughters, and women’s testimonies are legally valued as half that of a man. The system doesn’t merely restrict movement but permeates every aspect of a woman’s life, erasing autonomy and dignity.
International Incidents: A Glimpse Into the System
In 2020, Qatar made global headlines for the forced invasive examinations of 18 women, including 13 Australians, at Doha Airport. The incident - stemming from the search for the mother of an abandoned baby - was condemned internationally. For Aisha Al-Qahtani, this wasn’t surprising. “It reflects a pattern of abuse toward women,” she remarked.
Beyond the Glitter: Reform or Hypocrisy?
While Qatar’s leaders, including Prime Minister Sheikh Mohammed bin Abdulrahman Al-Thani, have urged other nations to respect women’s rights, the same reforms remain elusive within their borders. Despite international pressure, the country retains its male guardianship laws, standing as the only Gulf nation clinging to such practices.
A Desperate Aspiration for Freedom
For many Qatari women, the ultimate dream lies in escaping to places where they can live with dignity and freedom. While society calls them “Sheikha” - a title symbolizing nobility - they often find themselves trapped in roles defined by obedience and submission.
The question remains: What is a woman in Qatar? A precious entity so protected that she’s deprived of her freedom or an individual quietly plotting her path to freedom?
Alexandra Audrey Tompson
Journalist | Lawyer (Admitted in New York; England & Wales)